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Book Six of ten

Loss of Identity

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The book

A Day in the Life of Grief, Book Six: Loss of Identity

The full book, with the myth, the secondary loss, the virtue, the life lesson, and your reflection questions.

The companion workbook

A Day in the Life of Grief, Companion Workbook Six: Loss of Identity

Use it alongside the book. Each exercise gives you room to work with one of the book’s reflection questions.

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Four threads

Begin with any of them. There is no order, and nothing here needs finishing.

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The Myth

“Grief is the same for everyone.”

Explored in the book. Defying Grief carries this myth into its InnerCompass conversation.

About Defying Grief

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The Secondary Loss

Loss of Identity

Read how AVAIA names this loss, or see the Library entries filed under it.

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The Virtue Family

Integrity

This book connects to the Integrity family in the Chemistry of Virtue. Which elements, if any, you recognize in yourself is yours to decide.

Explore Integrity in the Chemistry of Virtue

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The Life Lesson

No Trail

From The View From Above: The Loss of Identity. The class is live; its life-lesson narrative is still being written.

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